Twitter User Shares "Ball In Box" Analog To Help People Understand The Loss Of A Loved One (5 Tweets)

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Feb 20, 2019 2:00 PM EST

These tweets recently resurfaced again and we're not complaining. It's a wonderful and clear analogy that could help those who need to see it. 

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    Line - Lauren Herschel @LaurenHerschel 29 Dec 2017 After what has been a surprisingly okayish Christmas, I had a moment today in SuperStore. Saw a lady who reminded me of my 92yo grandma, who even in the early stages of dementia, completely understood that my mom died. I thought I'd share the Ball in the Box analogy my Dr told me THE BOX L 4.4K 268 9.1K
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    Circle - Lauren Herschel @LaurenHerschel 29 Dec 2017 So grief is like this: There's a box with a ball in it. And a pain button And no, I am not known for my art skills TIO BALL PAIN RUTION ti513 36 1.9K
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    Circle - Lauren Herschel @LaurenHerschel 29 Dec 2017 In the beginning, the ball is huge. You can't move the box without the ball hitting the pain button. It rattles around on its own in there and hits the button over and over. You can't control it it just keeps hurting. Sometimes it seems unrelenting. - LI 143 5 1.4K
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    Text - Lauren Herschel @LaurenHerschel 29 Dec 2017 Over time, the ball gets smaller. It hits the button less and less but when it does, it hurts just as much. It's better because you can function day to day more easily. But the downside is that the ball randomly hits that button when you least expect it. O 2i172 1.8K 8
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    Text - Lauren Herschel @Lauren Herschel 29 Dec 2017 For most people, the ball never really goes away. It might hit less and less and you have more time to recover between hits, unlike when the ball was still giant. I thought this was the best description of grief I've heard in a long time. LI 147 36 2.3K Lauren Herschel @LaurenHerschel 29 Dec 2017 I told my step dad about the ball in the box (with even worse pictures). He now uses it to talk about how he's feeling. "The Ball was really big today
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